Funerals
The faith of the Christian community in the resurrection of the dead brings support and strength to those who suffer the loss of those whom they love.” ~The Order of Christian Funerals #9
In the funeral liturgy…the community gathers to hear the message of Easter hope proclaimed in the liturgy of the word and to commend the deceased to God.” ~The Order of Christian Funerals #177
Introduction
This information is provided to assist families who have just lost a loved one as well as for those who are making funeral preparations for themselves or a loved one prior to their death.
Funeral Rites
We speak about the funeral rites based on the Order of Christian Funerals. Typically, the Church celebrates three formal rites described below, all or some of which may be used depending upon the wishes of the family.
Vigil for the Deceased: This takes place the evening prior to the funeral liturgy at the funeral home or in the church. The service is a Liturgy of the Word. It centers on readings from sacred scripture, songs, psalms, and intercessory prayer. A brief homily/reflection by the presider may also be included. The vigil service is the time for family and friends to offer stories, reflections, and eulogies on the life of the deceased.
Funeral Liturgy: The Funeral Liturgy can be celebrated within a Mass or Outside of Mass. The Funeral Mass is celebrated in the church and is the principal celebration of the Church's funeral rites. The Funeral Liturgy Outside of Mass may be celebrated in the church or at a funeral home. In this case, a vigil would not be celebrated. With a Funeral Liturgy Outside of Mass, a later Mass may be celebrated in memory of the deceased.
Rite of Committal/Graveside Service: This is celebrated at the place of burial/inurnment. The Rite of Committal takes place before or after the funeral luncheon depending on the place of burial. This rite includes a short scripture verse, the prayer of committal, intercessions, the Lord’s Prayer and a blessing. Flowers and/or a handful of dirt may be spread in the grave as a final gesture of farewell. Military honors, if applicable, are usually rendered at the time of committal.
Frequently Asked Questions:
Who assists with the funeral planning?
The funeral rites are planned in coordination with the family of the deceased, the presiding priest and the director of music
When are funerals held at St. Patrick?
As a general rule, funerals are scheduled at noon Tuesday through Friday. At the time of death, contact the parish as soon as possible. Prior to making any funeral arrangements, please be in dialogue with the parish. When cremation is chosen it ordinarily follows the Funeral Mass.
What about a luncheon reception?
Our space for luncheons will only accommodate 100 people. We provide individuals who help set up and serve food for funeral luncheons. The food must be catered.
What is the difference between a Funeral Mass and a Memorial Mass?
A Memorial Mass is celebrated for a loved one after burial/inurnment has occurred.
The faith of the Christian community in the resurrection of the dead brings support and strength to those who suffer the loss of those whom they love.” ~The Order of Christian Funerals #9
In the funeral liturgy…the community gathers to hear the message of Easter hope proclaimed in the liturgy of the word and to commend the deceased to God.” ~The Order of Christian Funerals #177
Introduction
This information is provided to assist families who have just lost a loved one as well as for those who are making funeral preparations for themselves or a loved one prior to their death.
Funeral Rites
We speak about the funeral rites based on the Order of Christian Funerals. Typically, the Church celebrates three formal rites described below, all or some of which may be used depending upon the wishes of the family.
Vigil for the Deceased: This takes place the evening prior to the funeral liturgy at the funeral home or in the church. The service is a Liturgy of the Word. It centers on readings from sacred scripture, songs, psalms, and intercessory prayer. A brief homily/reflection by the presider may also be included. The vigil service is the time for family and friends to offer stories, reflections, and eulogies on the life of the deceased.
Funeral Liturgy: The Funeral Liturgy can be celebrated within a Mass or Outside of Mass. The Funeral Mass is celebrated in the church and is the principal celebration of the Church's funeral rites. The Funeral Liturgy Outside of Mass may be celebrated in the church or at a funeral home. In this case, a vigil would not be celebrated. With a Funeral Liturgy Outside of Mass, a later Mass may be celebrated in memory of the deceased.
Rite of Committal/Graveside Service: This is celebrated at the place of burial/inurnment. The Rite of Committal takes place before or after the funeral luncheon depending on the place of burial. This rite includes a short scripture verse, the prayer of committal, intercessions, the Lord’s Prayer and a blessing. Flowers and/or a handful of dirt may be spread in the grave as a final gesture of farewell. Military honors, if applicable, are usually rendered at the time of committal.
Frequently Asked Questions:
Who assists with the funeral planning?
The funeral rites are planned in coordination with the family of the deceased, the presiding priest and the director of music
When are funerals held at St. Patrick?
As a general rule, funerals are scheduled at noon Tuesday through Friday. At the time of death, contact the parish as soon as possible. Prior to making any funeral arrangements, please be in dialogue with the parish. When cremation is chosen it ordinarily follows the Funeral Mass.
What about a luncheon reception?
Our space for luncheons will only accommodate 100 people. We provide individuals who help set up and serve food for funeral luncheons. The food must be catered.
What is the difference between a Funeral Mass and a Memorial Mass?
A Memorial Mass is celebrated for a loved one after burial/inurnment has occurred.